Monday, March 18, 2024

Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for March 17

Our topic was trying to get out of being spanked, and here's what you said.

Dan: Since all our spankings are disciplinary, oh yes, I've tried to get out of many of them. They say "justice delayed is justice denied," and delay is my go-to move for trying to get out of one.

 Sage: I am always trying to get into a spanking, not out of one. But then my spankings cause me pleasure & no serious pain. I am grateful though that my vanilla partner is willing to spank me twice a week, for between 30 minutes & an hour, interspersed with vanilla stuff. He's stopped asking me "Have you had enough?" because he knows by now I'll always say "No, I'm insatiable. Stop when you are tired." 

Bonnie: I would say very seldom, and never without a good reason. We generally agree to postpone the spanking until a better time, but I don't get out of it.

Graham: Nope! Never had a spanking that wasn't well deserved -- or at least pretty well deserved! 

Wendel: I would have to agree with Sage Blum. The Misses and I are happy to get spanked.

Roz: I may have protested verbally on the odd occasion but the spanking always happened. There have also been times where Rick has decided not to spank and I have said "I thought you would spank". A dodgy move perhaps lol, 

Jack: No way, tried everything, not going to happen, my wife/mommy isn't going to change her mind.

FL: Was role playing with a new partner, I pleaded a little too enthusiastically not to be punished and she let me off the hook. Then the penny dropped and boy, did she make up for it!

Prefectdt: I'll say a big fat no to that question :)

Barrel: Our spankings are consensual so either of us can opt out…for a while. We use spanking as a prelude to intimacy and if there is a better or more desirable offering at the time, either of us can pick a better option. Spankings are also used for disciplinary, educational and stress relief reasons, and while not always implemented at the time of the triggering event, we always get to the thrashing, but not until both of us feel the time is right.

A.J.: Nope!!! Good Lord, why? Too much fun! 

Allow me nominate poster “FL” for providing us the “Comment of the day!” That one made me laugh.

Hermione: Like many of you, I would never try to avoid a spanking. Bring it on, I say!

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From Hermione's Heart

Sunday, March 17, 2024

Spanko Brunch 2.0 #531

Top of the morning to you all! On this St. Paddy's Day weekend we have an interesting topic to explore.

Do you or your partner ever try to get out of being spanked?  If so, what techniques are used and do they work?

Please leave your response as a comment below. Once everyone has had a chance to speak, I will publish an edited summary of our conversation. Thank you, Bonnie, for yet another great topic.



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Friday, March 15, 2024

The Perils of Persnickety, Part 4





Click on the image if you need to, to read all the text. 

Thank you, KDPierre, for a fun romp through Persnickety.




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From Hermione's Heart

Thursday, March 14, 2024

The Perils of Persnickety, Part 3





Click on the image if you need to, to read all the text. Part 4 tomorrow!



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Wednesday, March 13, 2024

The Perils of Persnickety, Part 2





Click on the image if you need to, to read all the text. Part 3 tomorrow!


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Tuesday, March 12, 2024

The Perils of Persnickety

Our good friend KDPierre wrote a fanciful description of a fantasy implement at our brunch some weeks ago. Inspired by his effort, he went on to create a story complete with excellent artwork, all in the style of Dr Seuss. I was impressed by his effort, and he has allowed me to share it with you here. It's quite long, so I'll be sharing it in four parts. Before you read part one, you may want to refresh your memory by reading his original description here.









Part Two tomorrow. I'm sorry some of the text on the right side is truncated, but I had to enlarge the images for ease of reading. You can click on the image to see it all.


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From Hermione's Heart

Monday, March 11, 2024

Recap: Spanko Brunch 2.0 for March 10

How have your spankings changed over time?

Wendel: The Misses has been naked the last few paddlings in the woods, so I guess we have gotten a bit braver. Other than that, spanking at home have remained the same.

Sage: It hasn't been that long for me, but I've bought all these new implements from Cane-iac, Etsy and Amazon. We keep experimenting to see how they work. They all feel different. We're trying implements in different positions, although mostly OTK. Some toys feel a lot different in wheelbarrow, or when I'm bending over a chair, than OTK. Just a lot of exploring and then staying more with those positions & toys that work well for both of us for erotic spanking.

Roz: I'm not sure the spankings themselves have really changed, but what does change is the reason behind them due to the ebb and flow and changes in our dynamic and the feelings, emotions behind them. Punishment, play, role affirmation etc.

Mary: The spankings themselves have not changed at all. Once a month, after dinner on the first Friday, I clean up the kitchen and go up to our bedroom and wait for my wife. After reviewing my behavior the past month, I go over her knee. How hard I am spanked and for how long is determined by her assessment of my behavior.

What has changed is my behavior and my attitude. I am much better at taking care of the house, I respect my wife's authority and I am eager to please her in bed.

Most importantly, she looks at me lovingly as her helpmate.

Jack: In the beginning my wife used her hairbrush, her mother said the bath brush does a better job, trust me it does. She decided also that when I need a spanking, which has always been over her lap, never changed.
Early bed time really happened quickly.
Spanked in front of others, my mother-in-law happened really at the first, along with the fact my mother-in-law at her home did the spankings.
Others, well a couple of her best friends now see the spanking, or me facing the wall afterwards.
The latest is the worst. I face not the wall, but her or who ever else is present. I can be naked, or just having my pants and underpants around my ankles, all on display, and that tells me I have really crossed the line and been a very naughty little boy.

Barrel: Ours have changed on two fronts. First, the emotional connection. We have morphed from purely foreplay, to tension relief for both of us. As a dominant in my former business life, a long thrashing is a dam breaker for me emotionally and a port for my wife to release tension I have reluctantly gifted her. Finally, we have changed from just, OK…OTK to a planned build up, orchestrated teasing, use of other toys that culminate with bondage necessary for a long and intense thrashing.

It will be interesting to hear from others how theirs have changed.

Bonnie: I think our spankings have evolved a lot as we've moved through life. They tend to be less intense physically, but more intense psychologically. Randy has learned how to get inside my head and feed my kinks. By the time he's finished, I feel thoroughly punished.

Rosco: Well, it’s been over 40 years. Almost from the beginning, it’s been spanking followed by cunnilingus then intercourse.

Irene paddled me hard with a hairbrush on our honeymoon in 1982, but we stopped using one soon after. I remember being very nervous buying a riding crop at a western store before you could buy such at a thing at a sex shop or over the internet.

From 1985 til 2005 or so, our sessions would often be nooners when the kids were at daycare or school. Intense, wonderful and satisfying - but often a bit hurried.

When our youngest went off to college, we started to take our time. Lots of foreplay. Irene would spank me, leave, then return 20 minutes later and start all over. She’ll dress up - yesterday she was a southern belle. I buy Irene low cost dresses on the Internet - fun stuff that’s not her normal personality but not the usual sex outfits. At some point we started getting into bondage - it works for us but she’s not altogether competent in strapping me down. We’ve experimented with many other activities on the kinkier side - some things we do once or twice then move on - like her peeing on me. Other things we incorporate from time to time like ice cubes in my bottom.

These days, Irene uses a two tailed leather strap, a leather paddle and a riding crop. She’s learned not to strike the far hipbone and is usually a tad gentler when she whips me between the legs.

We’re almost 70 and have these passionate encounters about once a week. We take our time. In the old days it was almost daily but done much more quickly.

Hermione: I think that what's really changed for me is my need for spanking. When we first got into it, I was almost desperate for it to happen. Over time, I have come to realize that I will always be spanked regularly, so no need to fret about it. Now I pretty much take it for granted, although there is still a feeling of anxious anticipation as the time approaches.


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